10 Things Couples Should Stop Doing to Each Others
Stop holding grudges.
Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
Instead, use your time and energy to do something about it.
Stop meaning what you don’t say.
People can’t read minds. Communicate regularly and effectively.
Stop making it all about you.
The world revolves around the sun, not you. Take a moment to acknowledge this truth on a regular basis.
In the long-run the truth always reveals itself. Either you own up to your actions or your actions will ultimately own you.
Blaming others accomplishes nothing. Either you own your problems, or they will own you. Your choice. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give-up your power over that part of your life, and you annoy everyone around you in the process.
If you think that you can’t achieve something, I have some news for you, you’re probably right. But don’t let your self-doubt interfere with other people’s dreams. Remember, the one who says it can’t be done should never interrupt the one doing it.
Correcting someone when they’re blatantly wrong is one thing, but always interjecting your opinions out of turn gets old fast.
Stop being selfish.
You get what you put into a relationship. Nothing less, nothing more.
Everyone is fighting their own unique war. You have no clue what they are going through, just like they have no clue what you’re going through.